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” love me or hate , but cannot ignore me” MJ

June 28, 2009 · Leave a Comment

Michael-Jackson

No, I don’t want to write about Michael Jackson. His life or his death …how great his music was …how miserable he made his life , all the mud slinging, slander , court cases….i don’t want to write about any of it.  but everytime I read a blog or switch on the TV…. it has something to to do with MJ – he truly was one of those  ” love me or hate , but cannot ignore me” kind of a personality type.

some people absolutely adore him affirming the title he gave himself – ‘King of Pop’. the rest loathe him and see him as  sex offender…some , like me have mixed views – i like his music and maybe, an optimistic side of me hopes that all those allegations weren’t really true – But i do know , MJ was a troubled soul. He needed help physically and mentally. He could have done so much better, he could be happier. You feel sad when you think of him …he had a sad life, he made it worse for people associated with him.

Now Evan chandler discloses that he was never molested by MJ , he lied. he lied because his father forced him to. There are posts that MJ faked his own death – just to make money from his tours…he knew he could never make it to the concerts, he was too unwell for that.

Call him a legend or you might think of him as a maniac…the fact is – when you talk about music (pop to be precise) – there as never been one like him – there never will be.

Adios – King Of Pop !

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online or offline …a good teacher is always good

June 26, 2009 · Leave a Comment

 

My position paper on Dreyfus’ ” On the Internet” got me thinking about all the teachers in school i adored and some i really looked up to. I still seek inspiration from them , even though it has been so long. the book got me thinking if this  would any be different…if i were a on-line student.  one thing I know for sure is that,  it would surely be less enjoyable  :-) …but i really don’t think they wouldn’t have been able to pass on the inspiration and charm through cmc.

how often than not, we get inspired by the written word in books, on the Internet, a famous quote…i guess, more frequently than face to face interaction. the impact is less in a personal interaction, we notice so many unnecessary things like clothes, looks, hair , accent…dialogue and emotions usually take the back seat. our judgement gets blurred by the things on the outside, the superficial.

 Everyone needs a little help once in a while, we turn to books, friends, family, religion…i usually turn to my thoughts …dig really deep…go to a time and place where everything was rosy and bright. I think of happy thoughts and pull myself back to the present. it helps me feel rejuvenated and hopeful that i can bring back times…

ML was inspiring too, she was one of the kindest of lot. I haven’t come across a lot of people who have a position of authority and are still so humble, friendly and adjusting. hope the very best for her ! Like her most for the 10 by 10 she gave me…I needed that kind of boost in my first term at college.

Only if she would decide to give full marks for the research and position paper ! :-D DD

whats the harm in being hopeful !

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“Greatness is never a given. It must be earned.”

January 20, 2009 · Leave a Comment

 

My fellow citizens:

I stand here today humbled by the task before us, grateful for the trust you have bestowed, mindful of the sacrifices borne by our ancestors.I thank President Bush for his service to our nation, as well as the generosity and cooperation he has shown throughout this transition.

Forty-four Americans have now taken the presidential oath.The words have been spoken during rising tides of prosperity and the still waters of peace.Yet, every so often the oath is taken amidst gathering clouds and raging storms.At these moments, America has carried on not simply because of the skill or vision of those in high office, but because We the People have remained faithful to the ideals of our forbearers, and true to our founding documents.

So it has been.So it must be with this generation of Americans.

That we are in the midst of crisis is now well understood.Our nation is at war, against a far-reaching network of violence and hatred.Our economy is badly weakened, a consequence of greed and irresponsibility on the part of some, but also our collective failure to make hard choices and prepare the nation for a new age.Homes have been lost; jobs shed; businesses shuttered.Our health care is too costly; our schools fail too many; and each day brings further evidence that the ways we use energy strengthen our adversaries and threaten our planet.

These are the indicators of crisis, subject to data and statistics.Less measurable but no less profound is a sapping of confidence across our land – a nagging fear that America’s decline is inevitable, and that the next generation must lower its sights.

Today I say to you that the challenges we face are real.They are serious and they are many.They will not be met easily or in a short span of time.But know this, America -they will be met.

On this day, we gather because we have chosen hope over fear, unity of purpose over conflict and discord.

On this day, we come to proclaim an end to the petty grievances and false promises, the recriminations and worn out dogmas, that for far too long have strangled our politics.

We remain a young nation, but in the words of Scripture, the time has come to set aside childish things.The time has come to reaffirm our enduring spirit; to choose our better history; to carry forward that precious gift, that noble idea, passed on from generation to generation:the God-given promise that all are equal, all are free, and all deserve a chance to pursue their full measure of happiness.

In reaffirming the greatness of our nation, we understand that greatness is never a given.It must be earned.Our journey has never been one of short-cuts or settling for less.It has not been the path for the faint-hearted – for those who prefer leisure over work, or seek only the pleasures of riches and fame.Rather, it has been the risk-takers, the doers, the makers of things – some celebrated but more often men and women obscure in their labor, who have carried us up the long, rugged path towards prosperity and freedom.

For us, they packed up their few worldly possessions and traveled across oceans in search of a new life.

For us, they toiled in sweatshops and settled the West; endured the lash of the whip and plowed the hard earth.

For us, they fought and died, in places like Concord and Gettysburg; Normandy and Khe Sahn.

Time and again these men and women struggled and sacrificed and worked till their hands were raw so that we might live a better life.They saw America as bigger than the sum of our individual ambitions; greater than all the differences of birth or wealth or faction.

This is the journey we continue today.We remain the most prosperous, powerful nation on Earth.Our workers are no less productive than when this crisis began.Our minds are no less inventive, our goods and services no less needed than they were last week or last month or last year.Our capacity remains undiminished.But our time of standing pat, of protecting narrow interests and putting off unpleasant decisions – that time has surely passed.Starting today, we must pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off, and begin again the work of remaking America.

For everywhere we look, there is work to be done.The state of the economy calls for action, bold and swift, and we will act – not only to create new jobs, but to lay a new foundation for growth.We will build the roads and bridges, the electric grids and digital lines that feed our commerce and bind us together.We will restore science to its rightful place, and wield technology’s wonders to raise health care’s quality and lower its cost.We will harness the sun and the winds and the soil to fuel our cars and run our factories.And we will transform our schools and colleges and universities to meet the demands of a new age.All this we can do.And all this we will do.

Now, there are some who question the scale of our ambitions – who suggest that our system cannot tolerate too many big plans.Their memories are short.For they have forgotten what this country has already done; what free men and women can achieve when imagination is joined to common purpose, and necessity to courage.

What the cynics fail to understand is that the ground has shifted beneath them – that the stale political arguments that have consumed us for so long no longer apply.The question we ask today is not whether our government is too big or too small, but whether it works – whether it helps families find jobs at a decent wage, care they can afford, a retirement that is dignified.Where the answer is yes, we intend to move forward.Where the answer is no, programs will end.And those of us who manage the public’s dollars will be held to account – to spend wisely, reform bad habits, and do our business in the light of day – because only then can we restore the vital trust between a people and their government.

Nor is the question before us whether the market is a force for good or ill.Its power to generate wealth and expand freedom is unmatched, but this crisis has reminded us that without a watchful eye, the market can spin out of control – and that a nation cannot prosper long when it favors only the prosperous.The success of our economy has always depended not just on the size of our Gross Domestic Product, but on the reach of our prosperity; on our ability to extend opportunity to every willing heart – not out of charity, but because it is the surest route to our common good.

As for our common defense, we reject as false the choice between our safety and our ideals.Our Founding Fathers, faced with perils we can scarcely imagine, drafted a charter to assure the rule of law and the rights of man, a charter expanded by the blood of generations.Those ideals still light the world, and we will not give them up for expedience’s sake.And so to all other peoples and governments who are watching today, from the grandest capitals to the small village where my father was born:know that America is a friend of each nation and every man, woman, and child who seeks a future of peace and dignity, and that we are ready to lead once more.

Recall that earlier generations faced down fascism and communism not just with missiles and tanks, but with sturdy alliances and enduring convictions.They understood that our power alone cannot protect us, nor does it entitle us to do as we please.Instead, they knew that our power grows through its prudent use; our security emanates from the justness of our cause, the force of our example, the tempering qualities of humility and restraint.

We are the keepers of this legacy.Guided by these principles once more, we can meet those new threats that demand even greater effort – even greater cooperation and understanding between nations.We will begin to responsibly leave Iraq to its people, and forge a hard-earned peace in Afghanistan.With old friends and former foes, we will work tirelessly to lessen the nuclear threat, and roll back the specter of a warming planet.We will not apologize for our way of life, nor will we waver in its defense, and for those who seek to advance their aims by inducing terror and slaughtering innocents, we say to you now that our spirit is stronger and cannot be broken; you cannot outlast us, and we will defeat you.

For we know that our patchwork heritage is a strength, not a weakness.We are a nation of Christians and Muslims, Jews and Hindus – and non-believers.We are shaped by every language and culture, drawn from every end of this Earth; and because we have tasted the bitter swill of civil war and segregation, and emerged from that dark chapter stronger and more united, we cannot help but believe that the old hatreds shall someday pass; that the lines of tribe shall soon dissolve; that as the world grows smaller, our common humanity shall reveal itself; and that America must play its role in ushering in a new era of peace.

To the Muslim world, we seek a new way forward, based on mutual interest and mutual respect.To those leaders around the globe who seek to sow conflict, or blame their society’s ills on the West – know that your people will judge you on what you can build, not what you destroy.To those who cling to power through corruption and deceit and the silencing of dissent, know that you are on the wrong side of history; but that we will extend a hand if you are willing to unclench your fist.

To the people of poor nations, we pledge to work alongside you to make your farms flourish and let clean waters flow; to nourish starved bodies and feed hungry minds.And to those nations like ours that enjoy relative plenty, we say we can no longer afford indifference to suffering outside our borders; nor can we consume the world’s resources without regard to effect.For the world has changed, and we must change with it.

As we consider the road that unfolds before us, we remember with humble gratitude those brave Americans who, at this very hour, patrol far-off deserts and distant mountains.They have something to tell us today, just as the fallen heroes who lie in Arlington whisper through the ages.We honor them not only because they are guardians of our liberty, but because they embody the spirit of service; a willingness to find meaning in something greater than themselves.And yet, at this moment – a moment that will define a generation – it is precisely this spirit that must inhabit us all.

For as much as government can do and must do, it is ultimately the faith and determination of the American people upon which this nation relies.It is the kindness to take in a stranger when the levees break, the selflessness of workers who would rather cut their hours than see a friend lose their job which sees us through our darkest hours.It is the firefighter’s courage to storm a stairway filled with smoke, but also a parent’s willingness to nurture a child, that finally decides our fate.

Our challenges may be new.The instruments with which we meet them may be new.But those values upon which our success depends – hard work and honesty, courage and fair play, tolerance and curiosity, loyalty and patriotism – these things are old.These things are true.They have been the quiet force of progress throughout our history.What is demanded then is a return to these truths.What is required of us now is a new era of responsibility – a recognition, on the part of every American, that we have duties to ourselves, our nation, and the world, duties that we do not grudgingly accept but rather seize gladly, firm in the knowledge that there is nothing so satisfying to the spirit, so defining of our character, than giving our all to a difficult task.

This is the price and the promise of citizenship.

This is the source of our confidence – the knowledge that God calls on us to shape an uncertain destiny.

This is the meaning of our liberty and our creed – why men and women and children of every race and every faith can join in celebration across this magnificent mall, and why a man whose father less than sixty years ago might not have been served at a local restaurant can now stand before you to take a most sacred oath.

So let us mark this day with remembrance, of who we are and how far we have traveled.In the year of America’s birth, in the coldest of months, a small band of patriots huddled by dying campfires on the shores of an icy river.The capital was abandoned.The enemy was advancing.The snow was stained with blood.At a moment when the outcome of our revolution was most in doubt, the father of our nation ordered these words be read to the people:

“Let it be told to the future world…that in the depth of winter, when nothing but hope and virtue could survive…that the city and the country, alarmed at one common danger, came forth to meet (it).”

America.In the face of our common dangers, in this winter of our hardship, let us remember these timeless words.With hope and virtue, let us brave once more the icy currents, and endure what storms may come.Let it be said by our children’s children that when we were tested we refused to let this journey end, that we did not turn back nor did we falter; and with eyes fixed on the horizon and God’s grace upon us, we carried forth that great gift of freedom and delivered it safely to future generations.

- Barack Obama

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blessed by morpheus

January 19, 2009 · Leave a Comment

Well, I am blessed by Morpheus so, is my little one. weaving plans and dreams for every little thing and every event. Though, very few of them translate into reality…we are not disapointed nor do our dreams get shattered. we carve a different a dream every time life takes a new turn.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YKn6h2×5IcY

Morpheus is the greek god of dreams.

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January 12, 2009 · Leave a Comment

my new painting is going to be an orginal…well, almost. it is what we call insipired. since, i have chosen not to do oils, i will stick to madhubani art form

how can a four and 1/2 year old read an oscar wilde unabridged short story? yes, she read the happy prince yesterday. kids are so wonderful, they are so inspiring. 

Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.

You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them,
but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.

You are the bows from which your children
as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,
and He bends you with His might
that His arrows may go swift and far.
Let our bending in the archer’s hand be for gladness;
For even as He loves the arrow that flies,
so He loves also the bow that is stable.

- Khalil Gibran

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my wish

January 10, 2009 · Leave a Comment

I wish: I had some friends in the same time zone…

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jise sab hai patta…woh hai meri ma.

December 31, 2008 · Leave a Comment

 

I was just watching, Ndtv they had a program in which people voted for one song out of the all the songs ( if you chooose to call them so) released in 2008…the best song of 2008 ! through out the program I was dreading they would come out with something like ’singh is king’ or ‘laundry ka bill’ as the winner… or maybe yet again a diwaana aur a jaaneman number

But surprisingly, the song which is chosen ’song of the year’ is the maa song from taare zameen par ! a simple and heartrending song, not a dance number. A boy away from home, missing his mom and hoping that she would know how he is feeling. My trust in bollywood music was been restored when i remembered that we also had a song like this one last year.

there a simplicity of emotions, melodious music and warmth in lyrics…the song is simple, original and heartfelt. Of all the songs that have paid tribute to mothers, this would be ranked among one of the best. this is one song which will bring a tear to your eyes and make you call your mom rightaway !

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tlIOLtQ_D1s

mother

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listening to the dead

August 28, 2008 · Leave a Comment

Well, I got a lot done today.  we all went for a quick walk in the cemetery. taking a walk in the cemetery is quite relaxing.  it removes all the clutter from my mind. on days when I am over worked – It helps me slow down. as I pass through the graves ( some of them more than a 100 years old) , I realise that life isn’t about scores. Daily mundane, routine activities can make us so busy that we lose sight of the larger goals in life.

And on days when i am too laid-back, relaxed and just plain bored…a walk in the cemetery reminds me that time is limited. So, I should be making better use of it. Not just in accomplishments but also enjoyment. savouring whatever life has to offer…squeezing very bit of pleasure, contentment, reaching out to people and making those call i have been postponing. I see a grave of a 16 year old boy, that makes me sad , i always stand there for a moment recounting the number of years he lived (1892-1908)…hoping that i made a counting mistake – but it always remains the same number of years.

the cemetery  is a very peaceful, calm and quiet place, At the sametime it says a lot – only if you are willing to listen.

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why, when, where, what and how

August 27, 2008 · Leave a Comment

 

Aug 27th 2008.

why am I writing this …is it just for myself? Or do i want someone to read it. What makes me think that just putting everything in words will make it simpler or easier to comprehend? what lessons will I be looking for when looking back at my daily posts? why do we look for lessons in everything, is it just to make something painful hurt less…just to lessen the guilt when we are at fault…is it the vain streak in us that makes us believe that we live ( or would ) a life great enough that people would like to read about it?  though, in reality – no one except for our vain-self will read and gloat ( or maybe, shriek in horror) .

till that day arrives – lets write some more.

looking forward to a good day tomorrow …wouldn’t be able to start it early as it is already past 2 am.  hmm, maybe i can work on a new article…what to write ….dont have any ideas. haven’t been following any current events…dont know what to write about – lets do a search – story ideas??? something might come up.

I also have to go back to EMMA …it wasn’t boring or anything – i just lost track of the story – yet again !

goodnight.

 

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and then there is saturday …this is the week (end)

May 9, 2008 · Leave a Comment

The weekend is here -  we all look forward to it , dont we….I do, too ! But by the end of the weekend, there is a feeling of being cheated by it…not getting enough of it. On sunday eve, all of us r irritable …one didn’t get to go out much, one didn’t get to rest…n’ so on….

So, I though this weekend ( before it commences…) let me chalk out what I want out of it.

I want to watch a (good) movie !

take lil one to someplace nice – circus / park / amusement park

do something nice / new – maybe play tennis (weather permitting)…

place a few important phone calls….

and spend lots of timing lazing around with my little one….treat her with a bubble bath

hope i haven’t listed too many things in my itinerary. goodluck to me………….!!!

Have a good weekend !

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